How you wake your
kids up in the morning?
I was drinking my tea at 5:15 am when I saw a mother woke her
son up. I was so surprised to see the way she did it. “hey! Wake up, wake up. Sholat!
Wake up. You wanna go home or not?” she did it by tapping his body many times.
This was not the only case I know. As a teacher I sometimes
asked my students how they are treated by their parents. I started my questions
from “How did she wake you up in the morning?” most of them said, “very much noisy, ma’am” when I asked
how did they feel about that, “Made me
really bad mood, I was lazy to do anything she asked me to do” I do understand them well as we know that
sleeping is the natural periodic suspension of consciousness
during which the powers of the body are restored or the natural state of rest during which your eyes are closed
and you become unconscious.
Based on the
definition of sleeping above, it’s not right to wake our kids that way.
As a parent we should know how to make kids comfortable in their house since a house
is a place where we can share anything with family. We have love and care in
our house. We call it home sweet home.
My son always said to his father, “please stop talking, I can’t think if
you always talk too much in the morning”
Based on the fact above, I suggest
you here to be very careful in waking
them up and treating them in the
morning.
How can we do that?
I will share my own experience that
was used by some friends and I got good
news after they applied it in their home.
This may need special time to do that one of my friends said, “I did it,
and got very good result but I can’t go on because I don’t have much time only doing
this matter.”
This is what I always did every morning.
I came to my son’s room, laid down
next to him, carrresed him and said,
“wake up baby, time to pray and school” I
kissed him many times. Sometimes I sang
this song, “Wake up the morning’s over, the bed is soft and warm where we laid,
...” (This girl has turned into a woman song, hehe) My son always held me and
said, “later mama” then I kept whispering, “come on darling, you don’t want to
come late, do you? Let me lift you down the stairs.” I lifted him down and took
off his clothes sent him to the bathroom. Everything’s great efter bathing. He had breakfast and talked happily. I used the time to ask him telling me his
experience the day before. Sometimes I
made some jokes. After he did all he must do, time for him to say good bye.
I created my own way to do this. And it’s not used by
many people. My son kissed my right and
left cheek, my forehead and I did the same. We closed it by hugging so tight
for about 30 seconds. When doing this, I whispered in his ear this words, “I
love you, son. You are my pride.” Then I let him go by waving my hands. “da
daaaa”
I got so much good response after
sharing this to some friends, and got good news as well. You may try this with
your kids. And you will see the different. You will create a happy generation.
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